Everyone, no matter who you are, deserves to be happy.
When there is a moment in your life that you're so happy you crould cry.
Remember it.
Keep it in the back of your mind.
Because when you find yourself sad...you wonder why you even try to make things work.
It's that time you were happy that matters.
It makes you realize you can be happy.
Good things do happen to you even when you feel you're at your lowest.
When you're sad, you can remember things can always get better.
They do.
They have before.
They will again.
You will find happiness again.
Just maybe...not right now.
Sunday, January 18, 2009
Decisions - Part 5
There comes a time when decisions have to be made.
Sometimes the decision to be made is easy to go about.
Sometimes it is not.
Sometimes you've made up your mind on what to do, you just don't know how to go about it.
Sometimes the decision you've made was with your head.
It's the rational, and easy...it's the appropriate thing to do.
Sometimes what is rational, easy, and appropriate isn't always right.
It shouldn't be.
Any decision made with your head is completely wrong.
Follow your heart.
Your heart knows what is best.
It knows what you really want.
What you feel in your heart will always be the right decision.
So why am I so afraid of my decision's outcome?
Sometimes the decision to be made is easy to go about.
Sometimes it is not.
Sometimes you've made up your mind on what to do, you just don't know how to go about it.
Sometimes the decision you've made was with your head.
It's the rational, and easy...it's the appropriate thing to do.
Sometimes what is rational, easy, and appropriate isn't always right.
It shouldn't be.
Any decision made with your head is completely wrong.
Follow your heart.
Your heart knows what is best.
It knows what you really want.
What you feel in your heart will always be the right decision.
So why am I so afraid of my decision's outcome?
Happiness - Part 3
Everyone, no matter who you are, deserves to be happy.
Sometimes you think that in order to be happy, you have to be in the right state of mind with yourself.
That you have to let yourself be happy by yourself.
That no one can make you happy.
But what if you're wrong?
What if there was someone who could make you happy?
They can make you happy no matter the day or time.
No matter your frustration.
No matter the fights you've been in earlier that day.
No matter how down and out you are.
They can make you smile with one, simple, awkward, cute look.
They can make you laugh without even trying.
They can make your whole day with one kiss on the cheek.
In order to be happy, sure you've got to try yourself.
But when you have someone in your life that can make you smile...
It makes happiness a whole lot easier to achieve.
Sometimes you think that in order to be happy, you have to be in the right state of mind with yourself.
That you have to let yourself be happy by yourself.
That no one can make you happy.
But what if you're wrong?
What if there was someone who could make you happy?
They can make you happy no matter the day or time.
No matter your frustration.
No matter the fights you've been in earlier that day.
No matter how down and out you are.
They can make you smile with one, simple, awkward, cute look.
They can make you laugh without even trying.
They can make your whole day with one kiss on the cheek.
In order to be happy, sure you've got to try yourself.
But when you have someone in your life that can make you smile...
It makes happiness a whole lot easier to achieve.
Decisions: Life Lessons - Part 1
Simple mistakes and a good ass chewing can really make you think.
Does it take a lot of effort to get out of bed?
How much longer will you wait to give them a call?
Will it hurt your ego that much to ask questions?
How about admitting you're wrong?
The little decisions that we make can really affect what happens in the long run.
Does it take a lot of effort to get out of bed?
How much longer will you wait to give them a call?
Will it hurt your ego that much to ask questions?
How about admitting you're wrong?
The little decisions that we make can really affect what happens in the long run.
People - Part 1
There are some people in life that you like, that you don't like, that you can tolerate, and that you just can't stand.
For the people that you like, you love them.
You're nice to them.
They're nice to you.
Everything is peachy keen.
And then there are people that you like but find out they don't really like you.
These are people who are known as fake.
Foney.
Two-faced.
These are the people who act nice to your face but behind you back they are self-centered, cowardly bitches.
You think to yourself, why do you even bother?
Why do they care to be nice when they secretly despise you?
Why do I bother believing they're genuine?.
There are three things to know about people:
Everyone is fake.
Everyone is a liar.
No one is real.
We live in a plastic world.
For the people that you like, you love them.
You're nice to them.
They're nice to you.
Everything is peachy keen.
And then there are people that you like but find out they don't really like you.
These are people who are known as fake.
Foney.
Two-faced.
These are the people who act nice to your face but behind you back they are self-centered, cowardly bitches.
You think to yourself, why do you even bother?
Why do they care to be nice when they secretly despise you?
Why do I bother believing they're genuine?.
There are three things to know about people:
Everyone is fake.
Everyone is a liar.
No one is real.
We live in a plastic world.
Decisions - Part 4
There comes a time when decisions have to be made.
And then you find a crossroad.
You find a fork in the road.
It's two arrows leading you to different paths.
Do you take the short, narrow, dark path.
Or the much longer spacious sunlit trail?
Do you take a risk or the easy way out?
Do you take the struggle or do you do what comes naturally?
You must decide.
It's between something you ought to do...
Or something you don't want to do.
Take the dark trail and get it over with.
And then you find a crossroad.
You find a fork in the road.
It's two arrows leading you to different paths.
Do you take the short, narrow, dark path.
Or the much longer spacious sunlit trail?
Do you take a risk or the easy way out?
Do you take the struggle or do you do what comes naturally?
You must decide.
It's between something you ought to do...
Or something you don't want to do.
Take the dark trail and get it over with.
Mistakes - Part 1
Everyone makes mistakes.
Even if the outcome is bad, they should never be regretted.
There are people who try to be perfect.
Who try to succeed.
They must always be right.
They do the right thing.
They say the right thing.
They NEVER mess up.
But once in a while...they mess up.
They have to make a mistake.
They must.
How can someone be real and show vulnerability is they never make a mistake?
They must be real.
They must show vulnerability.
Even if they don't want to.
Even if they can't be wrong.
Even if the outcome is bad, they should never be regretted.
There are people who try to be perfect.
Who try to succeed.
They must always be right.
They do the right thing.
They say the right thing.
They NEVER mess up.
But once in a while...they mess up.
They have to make a mistake.
They must.
How can someone be real and show vulnerability is they never make a mistake?
They must be real.
They must show vulnerability.
Even if they don't want to.
Even if they can't be wrong.
Disappointment - Part 3
We rise, we fall, it's what happens throughout our lives.
There is nothing we would want less than to feel sorrow for someone.
But then you do.
You feel sorry for them.
You have so much doubt in that one person.
It makes you thinkIt makes you wonder if they even care.
Do they even care that they cause disappointment?
Or do they just see it as a phase in life?
Do they ever enjoy what's going on and live in the moment?
Do they realize how much someone can feel for them?
How sorry one can be for them...
That's what I feel.
I feel sorry for you.
I'm disappointed in you.
I had faith in you.
I thought you could be better than that.
There is nothing we would want less than to feel sorrow for someone.
But then you do.
You feel sorry for them.
You have so much doubt in that one person.
It makes you thinkIt makes you wonder if they even care.
Do they even care that they cause disappointment?
Or do they just see it as a phase in life?
Do they ever enjoy what's going on and live in the moment?
Do they realize how much someone can feel for them?
How sorry one can be for them...
That's what I feel.
I feel sorry for you.
I'm disappointed in you.
I had faith in you.
I thought you could be better than that.
Sadness - Part 1
People don't like to feel sad, all there should be is happiness.
And you find once in your life, that pure joy you thought you'd never feel.
You were so happy.
You were in that perfect place.
And when you thought things were going smooth.
BAM! It hits you.
You've lost that feeling of delight.
You've lost the feelings you had for him.
You feel so sad.
You feel awful.
You think, why must things go this way?
Why is it over before anything happened?
Why do I feel so miserable?
Things weren't supposed to go like this.
It wasn't supposed to end this way...
And you find once in your life, that pure joy you thought you'd never feel.
You were so happy.
You were in that perfect place.
And when you thought things were going smooth.
BAM! It hits you.
You've lost that feeling of delight.
You've lost the feelings you had for him.
You feel so sad.
You feel awful.
You think, why must things go this way?
Why is it over before anything happened?
Why do I feel so miserable?
Things weren't supposed to go like this.
It wasn't supposed to end this way...
Untitled
For the first time...
I want to write about something.
I've been thinking about.
However, there are no words to describe what is on my mind.
I am confused.
I am scared.
I am excited all at once.
I have a decision to make and I'm confused on what to do.
I don't know how my heart is feeling.
I don't know what my head is thinking.
I ponder on my ponderings.
I don't know what to do.
I want to write about something.
I've been thinking about.
However, there are no words to describe what is on my mind.
I am confused.
I am scared.
I am excited all at once.
I have a decision to make and I'm confused on what to do.
I don't know how my heart is feeling.
I don't know what my head is thinking.
I ponder on my ponderings.
I don't know what to do.
Rejection - Part 2
Facing rejection is something one must live through no matter how much it hurts.
It must be something sure.
Something you know in your heart, it must be done.
Once you are sure of how you want to do it, you think you are ready.
But your plan fails.
You didn't want it to hurt them.
But it didn't.
It hurt you more.
You feel this huge amount of guilt.
Of pain
Of complete and utter sadness.
You feel horrible.
Like there's something missing.
Like there's something you could have done to prevent it.
But there's not.
There wasn't.
There's nothing you can do.
It wasn't your fault.
You knew what was right.
You made the right choice.
It must be something sure.
Something you know in your heart, it must be done.
Once you are sure of how you want to do it, you think you are ready.
But your plan fails.
You didn't want it to hurt them.
But it didn't.
It hurt you more.
You feel this huge amount of guilt.
Of pain
Of complete and utter sadness.
You feel horrible.
Like there's something missing.
Like there's something you could have done to prevent it.
But there's not.
There wasn't.
There's nothing you can do.
It wasn't your fault.
You knew what was right.
You made the right choice.
Death - Part 1
It happens to everyone eventually but we don't know how or when it will.
I will not ask the question of why someone dies because it is unexplainable.
Death is unanswered.
We hope that it will happen when we are old and laying in bed but it doesn't always happen that way.
Sometimes the time comes too soon.
Too soon for our brains to comprehend it.
We cannot fathom the idea.
We cannot understand or process the fact that he is gone.
He is viewing us in another way.
But you must remember: It's not your fault.
It's not your fault.
You cannot blame yourself for what happened to someone else.
You have to be strong.
You have to live on.
You must go on knowing the time you had with him was well spent.
Cherish the memories.
Let him live on in your head and in your heart.
And never let his memory fade.
[RIP Z Dub 11/11/06]
I will not ask the question of why someone dies because it is unexplainable.
Death is unanswered.
We hope that it will happen when we are old and laying in bed but it doesn't always happen that way.
Sometimes the time comes too soon.
Too soon for our brains to comprehend it.
We cannot fathom the idea.
We cannot understand or process the fact that he is gone.
He is viewing us in another way.
But you must remember: It's not your fault.
It's not your fault.
You cannot blame yourself for what happened to someone else.
You have to be strong.
You have to live on.
You must go on knowing the time you had with him was well spent.
Cherish the memories.
Let him live on in your head and in your heart.
And never let his memory fade.
[RIP Z Dub 11/11/06]
Disappointment - Part 2
We rise, we fall, it's what happens throughout our lives.
When there is something you want...
Something you crave...
Something you strive and yearn for...
You build yourself up to want something so bad.
Yet there is a voice in the back of your head.
It says: how bad do you want it?
What is the distance you're willing to go?
Don't dwell on it too much.
You don't want to end up disappointed if you don't get it.
But you will.
You must face the hardships...
The disappointment that comes your way.
You can't always be happy.
When there is something you want...
Something you crave...
Something you strive and yearn for...
You build yourself up to want something so bad.
Yet there is a voice in the back of your head.
It says: how bad do you want it?
What is the distance you're willing to go?
Don't dwell on it too much.
You don't want to end up disappointed if you don't get it.
But you will.
You must face the hardships...
The disappointment that comes your way.
You can't always be happy.
Rejection - Part 1
Facing rejection is something one must live through, no matter how much it hurts.
Whether it be rejecting someone or being rejected, it's never easy.
When one wants to...Has to turn someone down.
They have a lot to think about.
One doesn't want to hurt this person.
But you can't go on with the guilt you have.
You can't go on playing this game.
You must do what your heart tells you.
You must learn to use rejection.
You must learn you will hurt them...you will make them sad.
But it has to be done.
You can't keep living a lie.
The truth must be revealed.
Whether it be rejecting someone or being rejected, it's never easy.
When one wants to...Has to turn someone down.
They have a lot to think about.
One doesn't want to hurt this person.
But you can't go on with the guilt you have.
You can't go on playing this game.
You must do what your heart tells you.
You must learn to use rejection.
You must learn you will hurt them...you will make them sad.
But it has to be done.
You can't keep living a lie.
The truth must be revealed.
Decisions - Part 3
There comes a time when decisions have to be made.
No one can help you make a decsion.
No one should help you make a decision.
No one should make you do something you don't want to.
You have to make decisions on your own.
You have to decide things without people's input.
Without people's advice.
You shouldn't care what other's may think about your decisions.
The only person your decisions or actions should matter to, is you.
No one can help you make a decsion.
No one should help you make a decision.
No one should make you do something you don't want to.
You have to make decisions on your own.
You have to decide things without people's input.
Without people's advice.
You shouldn't care what other's may think about your decisions.
The only person your decisions or actions should matter to, is you.
Disappointment - Part 1
We rise, we fall, it's what happens throughout our lives.
There's always something in our lives that we want.
Once we realize we can't get it, we don't know what to do with ourselves.
We long, we want, we need, we feed off of it everyday.
When disappointment comes from it, we question why we wanted it in the first place.
Why would we want something that leaves us disappointed?
No anger, no sadness, but disappointment.
There's nothing worse than the feeling of disappointment.
Once we can see past the feeling of down and out and disappointed, what is there to live on?
We cannot live on happiness alone.
We must learn to live and give into disappointment once in awhile.
There's always something in our lives that we want.
Once we realize we can't get it, we don't know what to do with ourselves.
We long, we want, we need, we feed off of it everyday.
When disappointment comes from it, we question why we wanted it in the first place.
Why would we want something that leaves us disappointed?
No anger, no sadness, but disappointment.
There's nothing worse than the feeling of disappointment.
Once we can see past the feeling of down and out and disappointed, what is there to live on?
We cannot live on happiness alone.
We must learn to live and give into disappointment once in awhile.
Happiness - Part 2
Everyone, no matter who you are, deserves to be happy.
You have to make sure the thing you want is going to make you happy.
What if the thing you want is going to make you unhappy?
There's no way to be sure the thing you want is going to make you happy.
There is some serious thinking to be done about that one thing you want.
The only way to know is to go for it.
To do, say, make, whatever, it may be, you need to get up the courage to get what you want, to get what you think is going to make you happy.
When the key word is 'think', caution comes into play.
Be cautious, for "true happiness" can turn into sorrow.
You have to make sure the thing you want is going to make you happy.
What if the thing you want is going to make you unhappy?
There's no way to be sure the thing you want is going to make you happy.
There is some serious thinking to be done about that one thing you want.
The only way to know is to go for it.
To do, say, make, whatever, it may be, you need to get up the courage to get what you want, to get what you think is going to make you happy.
When the key word is 'think', caution comes into play.
Be cautious, for "true happiness" can turn into sorrow.
Happiness - Part 1
Everyone, no matter who you are, deserves to be happy.
Everyone needs to find that one thing that makes them happy.
They need to take it, keep it, hold on to it with dear life and never let it go.
Once you find that thing that makes you happy, you wouldn't want to let it go, would you?
What if you had to let it go?
What if in order for you to be happy, you have to lose what you want?
You have to lose in order to gain.
In order to gain true happiness, you must give a little, keep a little, lose a little.
Once you can do that, there is no end to the one thing that which makes you happy.
Everyone needs to find that one thing that makes them happy.
They need to take it, keep it, hold on to it with dear life and never let it go.
Once you find that thing that makes you happy, you wouldn't want to let it go, would you?
What if you had to let it go?
What if in order for you to be happy, you have to lose what you want?
You have to lose in order to gain.
In order to gain true happiness, you must give a little, keep a little, lose a little.
Once you can do that, there is no end to the one thing that which makes you happy.
Decisions - Part 2
There comes a time when decisions have to be made.
When you think you've made the right one, you decide to change your mind.
You decide to change your heart.
The decision you wanted turns out good for you but then ruins the heart of another: the decision they followed with their heart.
So now, you have to decide once again, what makes you happy?
What satisfies your heart without hurting anothers'?
You must decide.
Do you sacrifice the decision you made that pleases your heart?
Or do you let another be happy?
When you think you've made the right one, you decide to change your mind.
You decide to change your heart.
The decision you wanted turns out good for you but then ruins the heart of another: the decision they followed with their heart.
So now, you have to decide once again, what makes you happy?
What satisfies your heart without hurting anothers'?
You must decide.
Do you sacrifice the decision you made that pleases your heart?
Or do you let another be happy?
Decisions - Part 1
There comes a time when decisions have to be made.
To choose the right one is up to you.
But what if the one you think is right, turns out to be completely wrong?
What if it turns out to back fire and blow up in your face?
You have to be willing to make a decision with that risk.
You have to be willing to take chances even if you're afraid, even though you do not know what the result is going to be.
There is no way to know something before it happens.
There is no way to know what the right choice is.
All you can know is what is in your heart.
And when you follow your heart, you know, whatever the choice you decide to do, is always right.
To choose the right one is up to you.
But what if the one you think is right, turns out to be completely wrong?
What if it turns out to back fire and blow up in your face?
You have to be willing to make a decision with that risk.
You have to be willing to take chances even if you're afraid, even though you do not know what the result is going to be.
There is no way to know something before it happens.
There is no way to know what the right choice is.
All you can know is what is in your heart.
And when you follow your heart, you know, whatever the choice you decide to do, is always right.
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